Lingerie Gift Giving Guide

Since I opened Lavish I've met some amazing people, had some interesting experiences and learned more than I thought imaginable. It has been the most fun and rewarding experience in my life and I think it is too amusing to keep to myself. I'm not quite sure what direction this blog will take on but I'm hoping it will be just be fun to follow for random tips, WP gossip, things to do on date night, etc. Winter Park is a highly entertaining place to live and work filled with characters even the most imaginative of authors couldn't make up. I should have plenty of content to come. This is my very first post so here it goes. Hope you enjoy!

There are so many occasions that merit the gift of lingerie but of course that's coming from someone completely obsessed with the idea of a new bra and panty set for my personal collection. It's a completely appropriate subject as we just got over the holiday rush selling panty after panty to guys that walk in attempting to gauge the exact size of their sweetheart's waist by forming an open oval with their two hands. When are men going to realize that our lingerie drawers are open for size investigation 24 hrs a day, 7 days a week. And if that's too complicated try looking at a tag once in a while when you take them off our bodies. We'll be far more impressed at your surprise gift when it's the right size than we are with your one-handed bra snapping skills. As we now approach Valentine's Day I'm hoping some of them have done the investigatory work.

I'm not a huge fan of Valentine's day but let's be real for a second here and admit that it's a great opportunity to get a nice dinner and extra attention out of our beaus. Also a great time to update the contents of the lingerie drawer so whether you're a guy or a girl I know I'll be seeing quite a few of you in the next week or so. Here are some tips for Lingerie:

Shopping for Her:

1. I think I already ranted enough about getting the right size BEFORE your shopping adventure so let's put this one to rest. P.S. You'll need a number AND a letter size like 32C or S/M/L

2. Look at the items she has in her drawer and try to figure out what her style is. If you get her something too far out of her comfort zone she might not wear it.

3. Don't flock to the red, pink and white items just because it's V-day and that's what the stores are featuring. Go with something you think she'll feel good in. Remember...she's not a Christmas tree so don't decorate her with theme colors just because it's a holiday. These side-tie lace panties from Wendy Glez are the perfect gift and oh so much fun to unwrap!

4. A nigthie or a sexy robe is always a safe choice and doesn't come across as too forward if your relationship is new or you're unsure of what to get her.

5. This gift is just as much for you as it is for her so pick something you'll enjoy too!

Shopping for Him:

No I don't mean man-gerie! I mean don't wait around for him to surprise you with a post-Vday Dinner outfit. Jump the gun and get something to reward him for treating you.

1. As simple as men are, there isn't any particular item, style or color that captures the attention of EVERY man. Try to find out what he likes before you go shopping.

2. Pick things you know you'll be comfortable in. A guy can always tell when you're not confident and it can take the fun out of sexy time quicker than you think.

3. In this economy, don't go with something completely impractical. If you're going to get a sexy bra and panty set with lots of lace or detail, get one with a black or nude bra base color that you can pair with your basic solid thongs so you can switch it up a little. Check out this black and nude push up bra by Elle MacPherson.

4. Don't go with a teddy or crazy thigh highs that you'll never wear again unless it's a complete fantasy of his. Most guys want you to be yourself even on special occasions.

So that's pretty much it for tips. If you're a local guy stop in on the 12th for an enticing V-Day event at Lavish. We're bringing in a bunch of different things for you to pair with your lingerie gift. Flowers for delivery, V-Day cards, Spa gift certs and NEW bath & body gift sets. It's a no brain-er for you AND you get to drink beer and eat manly man snacks. Girls, come in, make a wish list of your favorite items and send your beau in to get it for you!

If all else fails, get her a gift certificate and go with her when she goes to pick her gift out. Having a beer and your very own private fashion show in the fitting room at Lavish isn't a bad way to spend an afternoon!